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Before You Act, Assess the Situation by Asking Yourself:
Is it bias?
Is it important to address?
Should I interrupt now?
Should I take the person aside later or address this issue at a later time?
Is acting too costly for me or someone else?
What is stopping me from intervening?
What could you, anyone in the scenario, or the organization do to prevent future instances?
Consider How Your Relationships and Roles Affect How You Intervene:
What kind of relationship do I have with the people in the scenario? Do I know them well or not and how does that influence what I could or could not say/do?
How does my role or status in my team or in my organization influence what I could or could not say/do?
How might my gender, race (or other identities) influence what I could or could not say/do?
Some Possible Ways to Intervene:
Ask a question.
Avoid accusations and instead invite clarification (E.g., “what do you mean by that?”)
Arouse dissonance: people don’t like to be inconsistent. E.g., “I’m surprised you would say something like that, considering how supportive you are of women in computing.”
“Pivot”: this is a way of not confronting directly, but letting people know they made a mistake in a socially graceful way. E.g., If someone thinks that a colleague is a clerical worker, walk up and say, “Hi, have you met our new assistant professor?” Or If someone is interrupting someone, say “I think Jamie had a thought she wanted to finish?”
Use humor (when appropriate for the situation or your relationship with a colleague/student)